How It Works

Get connected in three easy steps!


You apply to be interviewed.

If accepted, we get to know you with a video chat. We will get to know your personality, assess your readiness for dating, answer any questions you might have and determine what you’re looking for in a partner. This is also where we will determine whether you’re a good fit for us--and if we are a good fit for you.

Get Started

You’re accepted as a client! Now, here’s where we get to work. You’ve filled out your profile, told us what you want, sent in your required photos and now we get to work looking for the right match for you. When we find someone, we will call you with the deets. We will only share the important information about the person and will never reveal private information to either party. If you decide you’d like to meet, we send the introductory email and you make the date!

Show up

You show up at the appointed time and place. Hopefully, sparks will fly and you’ll be off the M|M list for a while (or forever!). Regardless of what happens, we’ll have a follow up call within 36 hours of the date with both parties to assess how things went. If things go well, you can put your membership on hold. If not, we go back to the drawing board and find you another date!

show up & shine

No more wasting time swiping only to be stood up or ghosted.
We handle everything.  All you have to do is show up and shine.
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Join The Database

You have to be willing to grow and learn from past mistakes.

You need to have moved beyond the superficial ideals and know on a deep, soul-level what you desire. 


We accept clients who are:

We want clients who are fully available. If you are married, please wait until you are legally NOT married to reach out.

If you hope to meet a jet setting billionaire who looks like Idris Elba or Salma Hayek, please re-check your expectations.

We value people who are serious about what they want and are truly desiring to invest in a committed relationship.

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