Here to change the dating game, once and for all.
M|M was founded by Dr. Lisa Xochitl Vallejos, Ph.D., a licensed psychotherapist, and well-known dating coach. Dr. V wants to see singles of color find, cultivate and sustain loving relationships.
She is committed to the health and wholeness of our communities and is dedicated to creating spaces where love flows.
Dating apps bring out the worst in us because like all impersonal apps and sites, there is no accountability. Users approach dating apps with a very cavalier attitude; send a trashy message? Why not, I’m never gonna meet them. Stand someone up? It’s no big deal…I’ll just unmatch and pretend it never happened. For those who are serious about giving and receiving love, this is a huge turn off and it’s why a lot of people eventually delete the apps in frustration.
If you don’t do the bar or club scene, where do you meet people? The odds of meeting someone by chance are 1:562 so to say it’s not easy is a massive understatement. Dating as a melanated person isn’t easy and meeting other melanated people who are eligible, available and ready is hard.
M|M is here to change the dating game, once and for all.